
https://pixabay.com/users/geralt-9301/ .I tried to be perfect as a coping mechanism, as a way to survive my father. As kids, we crave our caregiver’s approval. I feared being abandoned. Thinking my behavior, my performance, or achievement could bring me self-worth or safety ended in major disappointment. This void never leaves abused kids. We search for meaning […]
Perfection as a coping mechanism